Tak Nak

Dear Dai Gao,

Smoking is bad for health and we all know it, although your resolution says you'll stop by 2010 but i reckon you should stop now because you suck at quiting that i doubt you can quit by 2010. This is a speicial message for you.



Learn to say Tak Nak. Do not go back like how everyone did. Happy quiting Mr. Dai.

Simplicity


Everything in this world should be made simple, i enjoy life being simple and worry free. To achieve this state it is simple, love the person you love, avoid lying to gain trust, make time for things you want to do. When you live a sincere life everything seems to be in their simplest form. For example: Don't lie and no one will have doubts in you and you don't have to worry about covering your lies or even feel guilty. Drive carefully and maintain your car and you don't have to worry about car breaking down or getting involve in accident. My life was previously like nuclear science, complicated but usually i keep it to myself but now its getting simple and became minimal. I sing when i need to, i shout wherever i want to.

To be honest it is not a theory it is just an example, different people might have different approach, some might like complicated lifestyle, some enjoy living with all the excessive baggages. Some turn to religious group for help. I believe living a simple righteous life is just good enough. It is just like God had granted me a special ticket to heaven with no terms and condition, the feeling of security is what lacks in most people. I never once give my love ones any doubt on security. I always make them feel secured but it takes two to make things work. Going through this experience is tough but it is probably a good way to make others see me as an example for giving in unconditionally. No where near god but it is so far the best in life albeit the decision isn't the wisest.

Packing my bags and preparing a life with new adventure. Curiousity kills a cat, it could kill a human too. Try new things but within boundaries is what we should probably take notice of.

-Signing off-

Answering Request

There are four kinds of sex :

HOUSE SEX - When you are newly married and have sex all over the house in every room.

BEDROOM SEX - After you have been married for a while, you only have sex in the bedroom.

HALL SEX - After you've been married for many, many years you just pass each other in the hall and say "FUCK YOU"

COURTROOM SEX - When your wife and her lawyer fuck you in the divorce court in front of many people for every penny you've got.

This post is specially dedicated to the person who calls me by the name of G-boy, He who mentioned that i need to spice up my life and also my blog. Huatster i did some research on your request and i agree to write something about sex, i don't have steamy stories to share but this is all i can think about sex at this moment. I hope you like this post on sex. Happy morning to all miserable humans.

Vanity meets dignity

It is all the pride that makes a person sin. Pride itself is what makes people distance from one another. It was beneath someones dignity to actually lie and cheat as a result misunderstanding occurs. Going round and round the circle would not solve things. If it is the pride you choose to be and pretending that the world is so perfect with the person involved, what more can God do when hasty decisions were made. I must stand firm this time, I totally understand when this kinda situation happens. When one another doesn't put down their pride and also fake dignity which gives wrong impression a problem will never end. I had sincerely apologise if i had step on any tails. Anger and rage should not take over at this time. If there is no choice but to make a sacrifice that could put smile on that face, I'm more than willing. After all it is how this world goes round. Some people get what they want, some don't. Some would be irrational to release their rage just for the sake of the doing it to impress. I shall not blame other for they are bias, it can be directly compared to this national problem we are facing here in Malaysia. When there is no fair play, the one being on advantage would abuse it and the one being on disadvantage would just walk away and migrate. 300000 people (*mainly chinese) migrated this year and it is predicted that the trend will last until the left overs are either not qualify to migrate or could not afford to migrate. The govt never once look into it and appreciate or realised that the contributors or those who really care is right there. Just like how i was situated in a situation where the person who care most would first be treated as a threat and be eliminated.

-"Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him."
James 1:12

-"The LORD is for me; I will not fear; What can man do to me?"
Psalm 118:6

-"Their sins and lawless acts I will remember no more."
Hebrews 10:17

-"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love."
Ephesians 4:2


I hate to do this but seeing on the progress of my life, it is a worthwhile sacrifice in exchange for joy in others. Time will heal and God has his plans. It is unexpected that things just happens around us. It might be a sign for people to be awaken and notice the little things arounds us, some was awake but due to slant and prejudice the real value behind all things were all blanket and could not be seen. I humbly stand still to guide and to lend that helping hand.

-"Do to others as you would have them do to you."
Luke 6:31

Caught with pants down

Can anyone imagine the feeling of being caught with your pants down. This is definitely not for the weak souls. What is worst than being treated like dust. I'm supposed to be extremely prepared and excited about this month where i could make changes in life. Due to some unforeseen circumstances in the first day of the month i was force to stop for a moment. I believe i would be able to stay up all night and talk about it again with my comrade. Every unhappy moment just felt like forever and the moment you are happy it ends so quickly that you wish for the next event to be happy again. I must say sorry to those whom i hurt but more importantly i wish to let them know listen to the one which encourages you not just momentarily but every time even after you've let them down. The sincere one will always provide you the way. Just like how Jesus died on the cross for us because he rather be accused in order to save us. I hope it is clear enough as a parable.

With love, good night.

Attacked

Its war against me and the sleep bug which attacked me moment ago. I need a ice chilled coke so badly now. Birthday is near and i notice birthday wishes never come true so this time i will just skip the candle part because there is no point wishing for the same thing every year and it doesn't come true.

I'm so undecisive on where to eat with my friends on my birthday. I just hope someone would give me some suggestions. All i did to my DIY project today was to add a staple to it. I'm stucked at this final part which could be done in various way. I'm afraid to explore the outcome as i have limited resources.

I could just imagine this DIY project as a gift, the smiles and happiness will definitely be on their faces if they were to receive such special gift. Its just such a meaningful season to do all the meaningful stuffs i could ever think of. Different people are equipped with different interest, some could spend hours on Gundam, some spend their whole salary on a LV bag, as for me i spend my entire time working on things that means alot to me. I love shopping too but since there are too many pretty things in the world i should put my priority on the Loft space i wanted and dream of for ages.

I'm a person with minimal characteristic. I don't know what character will i end up if i were to do a test. I'm eager to find out but I'm afraid i might be disappointed by the results because it might not be the positive character i wanted to be. If i were to have attributes on all and balance i would be so close to God. I just hope one day when I'm prepared i could look back at my life and have a good laugh at it.

短言

昨晚在等待火车的到来听见一位阿姨在电话说:“不要说你会爱我一生一世,只要你每天爱我比昨天多一点就够了。”或许是跟老公说吧。 很有意思的一句话,也没想到阿姨那么乐观看待人生。 今天自己穿上了新鞋准备走上新的路程。

收到这位像姐姐般对我的朋友的留言在面书心情很是开怀,希望在狮城的您过的好。接下来在英国旅行也顺顺利利。

Facts of Life

The Facts of Life :-

This is the story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, and Nobody: There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about that, because it was Everybody's job. Everybody thought that Anybody could do it, but Nobody realised that Everybody wouldn't do it. It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody, when Nobody did what Anybody could of done.