Last Friday Night

I was all excited to start gaining momentum in life whereby I start to put myself out to test the waters. I was invited by my high school mates to crash over at their regular desk in Library. However what struck me was an unplanned dinner arrangement with a friend whom I've known for 8 years but yet to meet in person. I've enjoyed the time getting to know each other a little more, as anticipated we were both acting a little wierd because it was our first meeting. Later on we proceeded with the beer session and with no surprise I brought along my dinner buddy.

We had great fun as my high school mates were regular and we managed to get to know the band members which were performing that night. The night did not just end at where we were because someone has suggested that we crash a friend's b'day party over at Zouk. So we headed to Zouk partially hibernating. When we arrived it was around 10mins before 3am. The party is still going on and this is the place where men and women gel together and all the action happens. I was not spared in Zouk as I was trying to walk through the crowd in the dance floor I was being kidnapped by a random girl from a group of 6 girls and my wonderful buddies left me there. How the kidnapp scene happened? One girl grabbed my hand and pulled me right into the wall formed by the 6 semi-high ladies. So I just have to robot dance my way out, seriously I must admit, I was excited because it further confirms that hey if nobody wants me at least I was wanted for a moment in the crowd.


Me being me not interested in a come and go relationship decided not to even know them. So I guess they think I'm either gay or simply too arogant to even join them for some fun. That is basically all about last Friday night.

Dream loved by the Ants

I can still remember vividly the dream I had last night.

It was the best ever dream I had and that virtual image was locked in my head that I wished I do not have to wake up. There was an old saying that what you've always had in mind and constantly think about will often appear in your dreams because the brain is not fully at rest and the active ones will just puzzle up images that you've consistently imagined. I guess pretty bee must have been spinning round my head too much that a love story was playing during my sleep.

If only it was more than just a dream...

"Love bravely, live bravely, be courageous, there's really nothing to lose."

Future Marriages

Soon wedding will look like this...

Priest: Do you agree to change your FB status from single to married?

Guy: YES.
... ......
Girl: YES.
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Priest: I now announce you husband & wife. You may poke the bride.

Work-Live-Learn-Play

Many times I was put into situation or rather my job has always been in situation where I play the puppet show between both my clienteles and my management. My job is to basically originate deals from thin air and try to make sure that something cooks up. Trapping in between the Bank and clients makes me a conduit acting as a channel to twist and turn in order to please both sides.


No doubt I love being a generalist originator so I won't limit myself in the Debt Capital Markets playground and I could even explore possible M&As or even trade deals. Afterall the bank value their employee simply from the figures brought in. As a Gen Y we often seek a balance lifestyle of work-live-learn-play. However in the real and cruel world hardly any firm would give you the room to take a break let alone play. As a Gen Y I do wish I could have a balance lifestyle but I do understand the rigid rules in life therefore I'm perfectly fine at this point of time being put into tough conditions and hopefully this mould a better me in the near future.


At this point besides saving there is just not much opportunity in life yet. I'm still trying to increase my personal equity in some investments and hopefully a property during the property bubble pop rumoured to be soon. I've only spotted properties that I can't yet afford but looking further I think a landed property seems to be a better bet for a no brainer investment.


As for now I'll just have to beef up and continue to be strong. Salary comes to the people who can perform best (assuming meritocracy takes place) and of course to pray for the best as a faithful child of God.

在忙碌的上班世界里,
我要得只是短短的几分钟,
停下来。

总是想念那期待着下班,匆匆忙忙赶回家的日子。。。全都是因为有个人让我特别的想念。

Post-BKK trip

I was amazed that this time around BKK I didn't shop much, In fact I just took the time to accompany my buddies and bringing them around since none of them have been to Bangkok and none actually plan the trip. So we just play by ear waking up every morning to decide where is our next destination.


I enjoyed this trip as I get to see the changes in Bangkok. Lumphini one of my favourite place in Bangkok has been torn down as they've closed down due to the maturity of their lease. Hopefully on my next trip they will reopen at a better location. Thailand is most likely experiencing high inflation as things were no longer cheap as compared to my spending last year. I can no longer get a bargain meal and the price haggling seems to be tougher.


Thats all for now as I have to follow up with a couple of deals in hand.