Happy Birthday Dad
Just make it to post it up a minute before 12. I just want to wish my old man Happy birthday and may the Lord take good care of him.
Extended lunch hour
It is Friday, supposingly a farewell lunch to me but due to the last minute twist I've decided to stay the farewell lunch still goes according to plan. My Senior Relationship Manager (SRM) bought us lunch at Lemon Garden, Shangri-La. We felt so heavy hearted as she is leaving us soon to take care of baby Chloe her new born baby. First time witnessing family comes first situation where she had to give up that lovely paycheque and spend her time with her family. I'm very full and when you eat alot during lunch it makes you feel very sleepy at work. I hope the basketball session tonight will burn away some fats I've accumulated from the sumptuous meal. Two weeks from now I'll be flying to Labuan for my annual dinner. Isn't it a privilleged to take a flight purposely for dinner and back the next morning. :)
Thank you Cynthia for the great meal, we will buy you the next lunch before you leave.
Thank you Cynthia for the great meal, we will buy you the next lunch before you leave.
Message to God
Dear God, please look after my friend in Shanghai as she lost her luggages thanks to Air Asia. I'm just worried as she is travelling alone and without all her personal belongings it is quite a bad situation to be in.
-Yellow and pink flowers might not be enough to brightened up her day-
-Yellow and pink flowers might not be enough to brightened up her day-
Freedom
Freedom of being single should only be applicable to matured individual who will not abused it.
Fishing
There are things or people that matters to me significantly. I like them more than anything except God. I usually pay attention to these things or people more compare to the ordinary happenings around me. It is like the spotlight would be directed and these things or people will be highlighted. What I do not enjoy is being fished or in other words being controlled just because I am more concern about these matters. For example in my career transition I don't like being fished with a counter offer which isn't really that much of a better package but it makes you think twice and hesitate. As for human, I hate people who plays with feelings as if it is a game. I don't like the "she loves me or she loves me not game". I believe we are adults we should deal with things in an honest and open manner. If you aren't gonna date the guy or girl then don't bother wasting their time. Don't give them hope and use excuses like we can be friends can't we? Deep inside you know it is pure bullshit because you are manipulating the advantage in hand. We human are design to abuse our ability. Till you can control it, pray for wisdom to be sincere. Good night.
My future in your hands
If you've turned 21 and have not visited a post office to get yourself registered as a voter, please do so. It is important to help yourself at the same time help people like me who wants a better future. I trust you people in voting for the right cause. Hence, I don't need to tell you who to vote for, since at this age you should know how to vote at your best interest. I know one vote might seem small but it is with all these individual votes that Malaysia might have that little hope to change. I'm tired of seeing white elephant projects going on and on, people being thrown out of the window or blown up but the culprit is getting away. So in one way or another if you are seeking proper judiciary, safety, economic growth, proper education system. I might as well say if you want improvement in the country use your vote wisely.
Matter of choice
Not trying to be mean but a lot of time the choice to hell seems more fun. Have you been picking the wrong choice?
Lip Buster
On Friday night an idiot elbowed me in the face during the regular basketball game. I'm extremely unhappy and furious about it and I would imagined two years back I would've gladly return the favour by punching him in the face. I might want to stop playing basketball if I see this dirty player coming to the court every week. I'm slowly recovering and would like to record this bloody event down in my blog.
Friendship last a lifetime
True friendship last a lifetime. I've hold on to this perception ever since I started making friends. Real friends encourages you to be more competitive and supports you when you fall. True friends are able to tolerate and when disagreement arises true friends would understand that everyone has different opinion and that it is fine that we hold on to our own stand. Thank you for being a true friend.
True friends list namely my travel mate and the rest you know who you are.
True friends list namely my travel mate and the rest you know who you are.
Uptempo
Heart beats faster when someone special came into my mind. I need to head to the wash room and refresh myself.
A beautiful bride
I just saw this video shared on Facebook and it is going viral. I love how they shoot this video. Taken in Bvlgari Bali and the bride is by far the prettiest in any wedding video I've seen. Just try not to search for this video on Youtube some of the comments might offend some of you because some facts are undeniable.
Single's Voice
From my recent vacation, I've become even more sensitive to my surroundings. I'm sensitive towards changes in career and relationship. At this career booming stage eventhough I can't match the bankers in HK I believe I'm moving up the corporate ladder by accepting the offer to HSBC. As for relationship, I'm as dry as dessert and that is the only drawback, when I was in Macau & HK deep down in my heart I know there is this empty space waiting to be occupied by my future spouse which I just don't know whom yet. I've prayed about it and hopefully she will be revealed clearly to me. I'm all good staying single as I could be closer to God and serve more but at the same time being dry makes me get tempted or crave for the intimacy or rather LOVE. It is not end of the world I'm clear and I do understand that as a human I will somehow make mistakes here and there and I prayed that God will watch over me. Knowing new friends in HK actually helped me divert my attention to seek for the one and not until the last day when I was alone in the airport reading my book at the lounge I felt the loneliness creeping in and I know it is going to make me start thinking of people whom I might have feelings for so I quickly shut my eyes and took a short nap. I know this is funny but I just wanted to blurp out my heartfelt thoughts in my private space.
Guess who is back?
I've touched down last night and reached home past 12 midnight. Woke up to work today to find out that there isn't much changes in the office and will be getting another counter offer. I'm finally back to a third world country. I miss HK and those friends I've met. How is everyone?
Away to CantoLand
Taking some time off during this season after resigning from 2nd largest foreign bank in China and moving to the largest foreign bank in China for greater exposure. I won't be able to update here anytime soon. Will miss my church mates especially that lady who accompany me in church for the past two weeks. See you guys when I'm back. At the mean time take good care and God bless you.
Domino Effect
I was thinking whether did I just triggered the staffs fleeing issue in my Bank. I was surprised this morning that my boss has tendered his resignation letter too. It is God's grace that I wasn't caught in this situation as I've resigned earlier and managed to skip the fall of the Bank's Malaysian operation. Thank you God.
Sorry made easy
Humbling yourself down to an extent to apologise to the person you might have hurt is terribly hard. So I was thinking maybe we should learn how to make this task easier for everyone. However it takes some practice to get things right. Sorry shouldn't always be extremely serious and involves tears but it can't be a simple as doing something funny to make the other person smile again. Games or DIY silly games can be another way of breaking the silence. But I've got a better one which I'll share it here. Its call the Sorry postcard. It will take some time if you are really going to send it by post. What you can do is probably draw your own stamp. Think out of the box and make someone smile today.Now you may use the idea below if you want, I seldom share good ideas :)
Most importantly be sincere when you apologise-
3 days
Exactly three days before I board my the plane to Macau to meet up with my travel mate. It has been awhile since I last travelled. Ever since I've turned single I travelled to several places to enjoy and see the world. I believe I was wrong back then making my world full of just my companion. Now that I realised that it was a mistake I see things in a more open manner. Most of the time we date because we wanted the one person in our life and we skip the knowing the person really well part. There is nothing wrong with trying to date someone but I believe it should be from a good intention or rather one should already have the mind set of putting in effort and commitments. Without it you can forget about dating as it wouldn't last and eventually you'll end up with a vacuum in your heart.
EAT PRAY LOVE
EAT PRAY LOVE
A meaningful show that I've watched with a friend last night.
-Always open your heart when opportunity comes to experience LOVE again-
A meaningful show that I've watched with a friend last night.
-Always open your heart when opportunity comes to experience LOVE again-
Other way round
Often people attempt to live their lives backwards: they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want so that they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then, do what you need to do, in order to have what you want.
Rich and Glam
Yesterday it was the official opening of LV at Gardens. Coincidently I had my dinner appointment in Gardens so I checked out the entire event one floor above LV to see who was invited as guest to this glam event. The few that I know were Jimmy Choo, Michelle Yeoh, IGB's MD Robert Tan, Supermodel Danielle Graham, Lilian Too the one that makes money from telling nonsense Fengshui and my highschool classmate now Miss Malaysia Thanuja. The opening ceremony was simple and classy. I'm not a big fan of LV but I think LV is good at branding and keeping the top spot for prestige and lux name. Most people would like to be there someday in their life as an invited guest to these events but I think it is not necessary even if you are eligible. I won't mind working towards it, having an aim is good but the value of these things should never be made as benchmark or priority in life.
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