Capricorn

CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover

Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Grouchy at times and annoying to some. Lazy and love to take it easy, but when they find a job or something they like to do they put their all into it. Proud, understanding and sweet. Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Cool. Loves to win against other signs in sports, especially Gemini's. Likes to cook but would rather go out to eat at good restaurants. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart.

So what makes me post this up is my dad sending me and email saying hey I read this and it happen to be quite like my son. Dad understands his son so well I felt like there isn't any secret anymore. He knows it all. Damn!

Crazy Beijing-er

I like it from the way a friend told me about his ex-gf from Beijing,China. Extremely wealthy and affluent family backgroud leads to materialistic children. I have no problem staying with them back in NZ but knowing that things didn't work out after all, I told him to relax as there are tons of fishes in the sea. He made his millions already I guess he doesn't have much to worry about financially. I just don't understand why one take so long to decide when it comes to a lifetime partner. I not saying you shouldn't be careful but this is a dog eat dog world. You take your sweet time and you are wasting others time and poof by the time you've decided it is probably long gone and made history. I'm very simple in choosing a lifetime partner as long as the basic requirements are met and I fall for it thats about it, my life has probably been handed over. Sometimes judging someone too early can make you miss a million dollar opportunity. Just like how my friend's ex missed it. Just because my friend doesn't show his wealth like Jho Low doesn't mean they are poor bastards. Wealth does make a difference to the realistic lady and too bad even if you crawl back now the million dollar package deal is no longer available for you, you Crazy Beijing-er.

*note: Crazy Beijing-er in this case refers to only this particular person in the above context.

11 years and counting

Our friendship started back when we were in highschool. The brilliant kid in class is my friend Douglas. We manage to hold on to our friendship till each of us left the country soil and back again. This time around he is going back to Germany and sincerely I hope you have a safe, pleasant and joyful journey. Not sure if I'm capable of meeting you in Germany but that is the plan but also I wish to check out some other major cities, we'll see if the cash pile I have is sufficient to allow me to visit you. Keep in touch.

Info Sharing

I've had this FB message group where four guys share our stuffs in it. I don't know if you have close friends to share this kinda things with you but I like it because we share everything from talking crap to articles on business and everything. Well they say if you have an apple and I have an apple we exchange it we have an apple each but if you have an idea and I have an idea we exchange it we both have two ideas. Sharing your knowledge is always a generous act. Happy sharing.

Sex is Taboo

The topic that everyone knows and not many talks about them openly. Sex comes in so many form nowadays with social networking engines and more people engage in sex act online. Striptease via web cam which happens openly even in front of housemates are not something new. My personal view is that no doubt sex is pleasurable and yet good for health. It is also something that holds two body together. I'm very sure good active sex life brings a couple closer. However I don't encourage non-married people engaging in any casual sex. Sex is not a game for kids, behind all the fun and pleasure lies great responsibility. Changing sex partner would definitely tear one's trust or relationship. I know most people nowadays would have tasted it by age of 16. Its getting younger and younger some say out of control. I'm not here to educate you because I know people who can read this passage are probably old enough to think for themselves. If both are willing and decided to settle down I guess there is no harm as there is commitment but things only go bad when one changes their mind. I'm merely writing this in respond to an article I read on the papers about how beautiful and good is sex and the benefits. I can't say its wrong because I don't know which target audience is she referring to. I hope at some point some day I could show my kids and say hey look what Daddy had wrote at the age of 24. I believe giving them positive values and freedom to think for themselves could provide younger generation a better understanding of what roles do they play in life. I really hope this could make an impact for those who still don't get the point. Enjoy safe sex and love like there is no tomorrow.

Better to engage sex in different position with the same partner than the same position with different partners.

The Itch

"We have to distrust each other. It is our only defence against betrayal"

A funny night to start with was I got into being a part time worker in a cafe, gluing addresses on letters. I get rewarded with honey green tea and night with jazz. What keeps me awake is probably the itch of a hand. I really think that at a cross road having two paths in front of you, you just have to pick one or you'll end up standing still. Life is all about facing different paths. I don't see BFF now ending up as BFF in the future although ideally it is desirable to have BFF as always but sometimes human changes and there is hardly any chances of standing between the fence, its either black or white. *note black and white doesn't resemble right or wrong here. So tonight I was put to test again after infinite times of trial. I didn't go head on to defend myself. I simply prayed that God would give me the courage to forgive my comrade for his stupid mind fucking act. Well I guess God ain't listening because a further outrageous act was taken. At this point of time I just can't imagine what is coming up next. An entertainer's life is portrayed as open mindedness but deep inside it is nothing close to anything a human could think of. The moral of the on going life lesson is that (refer to above in bold). Have a great day ahead.

Finally statement backed by statistics

"Divorce cases because of unfaithful wives have gone up by 20% in the past 10 years." Now obviously what you see here is reported in today's paper, don't let the figures get you because these are merely reported figures. Unreported figures could be as much hence I would say actual figures would be around 35-40%. Maybe it is the trend, maybe they just want to have fun and maybe they are just to easy. Lotsa excuses like blame the psycho husband, blame the handsome guy who came into thier lives, blame the weather, blame God etc. Now girls please learn love your partner as you don't want to join these "unfaithful wives" category do you?

Jaw dropping results

Now I was reading Asiaweek Chinese version July Issue. Flipping through the Asia top 300 banks result comparison and I saw something that caught my eye.



I work for this bank and I think this better be a good reason for my bonus this year end. Seriously a 6,479.6% net profit growth. Come on my dear bosses please reward your model employee here. Happy working people.

My blog and it's about me

I'm better off with just my caramel frappe.

Jr. Graduation

I attended the photo session as a camera man for my juniors. I wish they could soar in their career or post grad studies. Once again congratulations.

Reassure

Once again it never leaves the topic. The tale of an ex was part of the conversation last night. Listening it made me feel like an Ass literally because I seriously haven't heard of such incidents when I was attached back then. I just can't be bothered, I know what she did was really her choice and no one could stop it. I also do not believe such thing as I can't stop him from getting close kinda bullshit. See like I said somethings are non negotiable in my life. Above are some examples and at the same time I recalled what Ms.Jai showed me in her tweet one day. It says: "Never fall for someone you have to crawl for, if they don't encourage you to fly, tell em' bye!" I wasn't sure at first but I guess it does make sense now. I ain't going to crawl no matter how Mr. Nice guy I am going to be. Let me get the business deal on my pipeline done then I shall think about it. After all I did want her back but she said "NO".

Happy Sunday.

Thought of the day

I retweeted and at the same time use my friends statement here just because it means a lot to me. I was thinking some time back then whether am I in need of that someone. When I was younger I always think that it is simple loving someone and at the same time you expect them to love you as much however in this complicated world there are always wicked thoughts going on. Cheaters are common, after going through all those heart break moments I learned that what I want is actually just a simple relationship. Its just someone whom you can rely on and not just telling you bye-bye via a text. To sum it all up someone who can give you security and commit to the relationship. Without these basic elements it is mere fun flirting with disastrous ending. Promises are made to keep afterall.

People now are either too much a coward to make a promise OR too much a coward to take a promise... -Denise-

Doors

Decisions are often made when we are given choices. Sometimes I wish there isn't much choices so that we won't fall into dilemma. I pray when I need to make decisions and I believe I learnt my lesson from making hasty decision without guidance. When one door opens the other closes but as a human we are always greedy to have all doors open and we peep into each and everyone to have a look and if it is not what we want we stepped out hoping the other doors are still opened. I just want to remind you guys that there is always a door specifically made for us, its called our path and it is up to us to find out which door it is that lead us to our own neverland. While the door is still open you should walk in before it shuts. Which is your door?

Open Invitation

Whoever wants to join me @ Bali from 27th - 31st August 2010 are welcome to do so. I really don't mind travelling alone but after reading all the travel experiences shared online. It would be good to have at least one more travel mate. I love forums as they provide really good info for travellers like me.

The Actors Studio @ Lot 10

Thanks to my sponsor Denise for introducing this spectacular performance. I just couldn't find a word to describe the entire show. Fabulous, extraordinary, wonderful, creative, mind blowing. Its just good overall. Found myself a new place to hang out in the future. After this poisonous outing I think I'm starting to apprciate art more. I've only been to concert, comedy act, strip show, musical but this is the first time I experienced a play. Its worth every single penny and second.

Cock "The Ultimate Bitch Fight"

Location:
The Actors Studio @ Lot 10, Rooftop, Level 8A, Lot 10 Shopping Centre, Jalan Sultan Ismail 50250 Kuala Lumpur MALAYSIA.

When John takes a break from his boyfriend, he accidentally meets the girl of his dreams. Filled with guilt and indecision, he decides there is only one way to straighten this out…

Mike Bartlett’s punchy story takes a playful, candid look at one man’s sexuality and the difficulties that arise when you realise you have a choice. It premiered just last year at the Royal Court in the UK last year and was an absolute hit!

Mik Bartlett is a rising star in the UK theatre scene. Hailed as ‘one of the most exciting new talents to emerge in recent times’ by The Stage, Bartlett was formerly a resident writer with the Royal Court Theatre and is currently attached to Shapeshifter Theatre Company as its Associate Director / Writer.

Recommended for mature audience only.

I must agree to my sponsor on this, the thing that caught my attention most is the last line which was in bold. Heading for the show tonight and I'll let you guys know how the show turn out to be.

Adult manner

I understand being an adult is not easy, financially plus all the responsibility you bear. While these are not easy, it is worth every single second spent because you get to learn true real life lesson. For eg: Recently I was involve in a RM1 billion per annum contract deal. I noticed when it comes to profit and when you start talking about money the actual figures. Everyone shows their true colours, sly as they can be trying to eat up each others share of profit. From my observation Singaporean are one of the worst when it comes to money. Sometimes it is good to know them earlier rather than later. It is hard to build a relationship with them especially when you know they aren't genuine and sincere, like many relationships. I'm more of an strategist rather than an analyst, I like to look at things in a big picture. It not only helps me in most of the business plans I have but even building genuine relationships. Just like what a friend recently said that she didn't expect me to take it easy with all the short fall in relationships. I told her that there isn't much point of dweling over people who aren't concern about you. If the other person really matters then the person would deserve all my attention. I do wish things weren't like know but unfortunately things did happen. Hence lead to current situation. I may be a model employee at work and a fun partner but I do not like to be a sucker. Lesson from the past are great deterrent for future use. Happy growing up.

Heart

I don't want to be you whole life,
I just want to be your favourite part.

Daily Dose

Have you had your coffee today? When you earn more you tend to spend alot more on coffee.

Lunch @ Gardens

It was Sunday, after some reading I put on a casual T and head to Gardens to celebrate Mr. PengSang's birthday. It was a lunch get together thingy. Nothing much to shout about but lotsa catching up and ofcourse the food was pretty good given the hefty price tag. A relatively long lunch and definitely a good time spent with the group of friends. Happy birthday PS and may you meet you love one soon. *hint do not miss great opportunity that comes by.

U.S.O.

You've heard of UFO(unidentified flying object) how about USO (unidentified submerge object). I was taking a quick break from all the work and looking out the window of my building. I could see the swimming pool of Impiana KLCC. Then I spotted this USO in the pool.

Is it a squid? is it jelly fish? No! Its a ninja diving in the pool. I don't understand how can the hotel management allow muslim lady covered in full ninja suit going into the pool. Its like treating the pool as a giant washing machine to do her laundry. Its acceptable if they wear full speedo swim suit like Michael Phelps in the Olympics but definitely a big no no to that ninja suit.

I tried to take a pic of it but I think she would be too ugly to be featured in my blog hence I've found a better looking picture as illustration. Happy diving ninja.

我；鱼眼

回音石；夜

我跟朋友们跑来这地方听音乐，三位很搞笑都面对自己的感情问题。
我们在这儿谈谈笑笑把伤心都忘了。。

七月

一：我忙的很，正在努力往上爬
二：我想念她
三：父母好像最疼我
四：兄弟要飞往德国了
五：超他妈多人在这个月出世。
六：我爱音乐和艺术
七：我发现我不赖。。。哈哈

你的七月怎么样？希望大家都过的精彩。

Smiley face spotted

I caught my self smiling after so long infront of the mirror for some simple reasons. I've always admire those who are willing to travel all the way for hours just to see their sweetheart at somewhere far far away. It was not long ago that someone actually wanted to meet up with me from far far away which lifted me up so high from the ground. God does listen to my prayers especially when I was devastated. It sounded like a fairytale that I myself couldn't believe that its going to happen and looking forward to it. Knowing the fact that someone out there is willing to come all the way to see you and just spend some time with you itself is more than good enough to keep you smilling for the entire year. However I believe we jump into a hasty decision that we forget that during the period before the arrival of the actual date, a series of unforeseen drama came up and the plan might be off. I've got another week before I need to make up my mind whether to apply for the leaves. It is an expensive lesson but although it wasn't the best ending no doubt the start was the best ever as it gives me hope (GMH)*. I'm just so excited talking about it and actually experiencing a hard fall. Well to be an optimist for once I shall just be happy about the memorable part as for the yet to be decided part I'm leaving it to God's will. Work comes first then relationship comes later. I always say this but when I'm in a relationship haha "she" will always be the priority. My life is extremely dramatic that I think TVB should buy my life stories and get some hot cast to produce a series.

*GMH=Gives me hope is like FML but for the optimist.

Signal

Your mind gives you a signal which eventually controls what you do and also what you think. So being an individual we usually interprete things in our own way. Alot of times the signal given by others might differ which could result in serious emotional disorder because you expected a certain feedback which did not happened.

Moral of the story: Send clear signals to others and expect nothing from others.

For Sale

So happen I saw an ad on the forum regarding some merchandise on sale. So I thought maybe I'll put up something for sale here.

[WTS] A Heart

Quantity: 1
Condition: Broken
Reason for selling: I don't need it anymore (its broken).
Description: Value for money(you get alot of pieces for the price of one). Will guarantee buy back if someone can mend the broken heart.
Price: Please PM me.

-I still can joke about how sad I am now, !@#$%-

My Elephant

My "DaXiang" is seeing someone and that leaves me here blogging about it. Its sad but life still goes on and time waits for no man. I'm just wondering is this the end of it. All of a sudden I'm in this wonderland and was looking forward to the sun and sea, the next moment everything has changed. Still I would like to thank "DaXiang" for those good times months back, not only it gives me hope but its like a helping hand when I was really down.

Where misunderstanding serves others as an advantage, one is helpless to make oneself understood.

Career

I writing this as I'm busy planning out something for my career from businesses to a change in career path. Not to say I'm leaving the banking industry but I'm looking at opportunities at other financial institution namely aggresive investment banks or capital management companies. I'm sure most people around my age +/- 3 years would be experiencing the crisis of being squeeze because its only the begining of our entire career life. I'm not influencing readers here to be greedy or to be "Kiasu" but your career is utmost important as I believe most of us want to achieve certain goals and live a comfy life, having said that different people would have different definition for a comfy life. Some needs a mansion and a water themepark to call it comfy while some like Mr. Warren Buffet still stays in an old house despite being a billionaire. Life is about learning and by learning we move one step ahead some brilliant ones might be able to skip and climb the corporate ladder quicker. So now at a crossroad I'm pretty stressed up but at the same time happy about the hectic life because I have less time to waste and sometimes sink into the EMO state (hardly happen nowadays). Prayers at this time would be helpful and certainly I encourage people to chase after their dreams but in a good manner and not just go for the aim using all kinds of method. When you have so many choices please do pick a wise choice because achieving your goals at the expense of other people can be very unethical. Well, eventually no one cares as this world is so deeply drowned with reality facts that no one can deny that "Money" is such an important instrument in life. I'm lazy to save this post in the draft, hence I'll post it up and I know there is no opening or an end to this post. I suck at writing. Seriously I'm not too interested in the money as reward of my work but I enjoy working on things I like at the same time money comes handy but not primarily my satisfaction factor. Ultimately a life with enough to live comfortably and maybe make my "fatty" happy by showering her with what she want will be good enough.

Everything we would ever need to become rich and powerful and sophisticated is within our reach. The major reason that so few take advantage of all that we have is simply, neglect.

Too cold to work

Its extremely cold for a start this week. I'm just waiting for that text to warm me up like a cup of hot chocolate. Life is all about you isn't it?

Footy @ 2:30

I just can't stay up for footy last night. First reason being I'm not a big fan of soccer and it is too late for me to catch such a match. I've got alot to handle at work and when I'm off my 9-5 job I would be doing some preparation for the business that I might set up. Time is definitely a little too precious for me. It was all good that I manage to catch up with David over at Wings. The live music was just alright. I'm glad that he found someone in his life. I hope both of them would really appreciate each other be it at peak or down times. Off for work.

Every other time

I was out for the entire day and it is certainly tiring to be out the whole day. I was out with a friend to check out some opportunity in KL and yes manage to score some leads and contacts. Its worth the time and effort. Took a stroll at Times Square and manage to catch some attention which made me feel uneasy either it is the haircut or I look plain weird. :P

I've manage to get hold of some news regarding the person that matters, I've to wish her all the best again. From what I heard she must have someone in mind and I'm glad that she is carrying well with her life. Have fun and be good.

Thank God I choose to not believe all her nonsense and result shows that it was a great move because I'm used to the lies she tells every other time. Love from one side hurts; Love from both sides heals.

Disregard

True Love Waits

Vulnerable

The soft spot is always vulnerable even with a slight tap. Like the same old me, I'm extremely vulnerable to this specific person. Setting this apart I shall be more focused on getting the serious matter done first which is obviously the "BIZ" but no doubt having someone to hold can be very encouraging at times.

"Cause no matter how far the view, I still always look up to you"

Wrong aim

I was astonished to see the authorities hitting on the people who bribe officials and not the officials themselves. With such high corruption cost and at the same time lack of enforcements. All I can do is sigh with disappointment, thing are just out of reach for us.

Non Negotiable

While I was sitting in the train this morning, I had this thought that what would you not compromise in your life given all sorts of temptations? I have a whole long list of things I do not compromise.

Be Honest

Even if others are not
Even if others will not
Even if others cannot.

"He who walks honestly, walks securely" - Proverbs 10:9

Who doesn't wish they could be in a relationship with no secrets and lies? Unfortunately secrets is part of our privacy and when you respect it, you give away the privileged to know and eventually bear the risk of a broken relationship when secrets kept rolling to a point that it became such a big snowball that it can no longer be covered.

Mega transaction

After reading the news on today's paper on the biz section, KL property just got a lift from this transaction with a RM38 million transaction for a Penthouse over at Binjai @ the park. I can't deny Binjai looks stunnningly good but for the hefty price tag they still have a lot of room to improve on the architecture but location wise it would be top notch as it is the only slab of concrete located in the 50acre KLCC park itself.

"The buyer is a corporate figure who has been on Forbes magazine’s list of wealthiest people. On June 22, he bought the triplex penthouse, measuring 14,300 sq ft, on the 42nd floor of Binjai’s Tower B. The price tag of RM38mil meant the penthouse was sold for almost RM2,660 per sq ft (psf)."

With KL land price of approx 1k-2k psf he just pushed it to a new high. Sometimes you just have to hate these rich people for hiking up the price of property. Wealthy Malaysians who made their money from scratch in a proper manner are questionable and probably less than a handfull of them. Well let us all work harder for our own space call home.

Matching

Like,

Peanut Butter & Jelly
Pen and Paper
Moon and Stars
Sock and Shoes
Pigs and Mud
Cows and Moo
Hot Chocolate in Winter
Flowers and Spring

Some how we just fit
YOU & ME

Thought of the day

As far as I'm concern functionality to me comes second after design. You can say it is just for show or rather appearance but major marketing success comes from design. Everybody buys things with the first impulse and when something with better design is released it will probably change the person's decision. Beauty is a choice, how much are you willing to pay to be unique?

Coke

I'm pretty much a coke fan, I probably drink it more than milk. My friends who came back from the Shanghai World Expo got me a can of limited edition coke. It's going into my collection. Just to say that I really appreciate that cool souvenir you guys got me.

Part of life

I've just spend my restless weekend. Waking up early in the morning and coming home late at night. The business proposal which me and my friends came up with was acceptable and now we need to start looking at some cost estimation. If any of you readers happen to know any website/webpage desginer do inform me so I can get a quotation and as a token of appreciation I'll buy you dinner for the lead. To all the friends whom we celebrated birthday together all the best in whatever you are pursuing.

Shanghai Style

Below is a text conversation between me and one of my best friend.

Friend: Hey, what hairstyle are you planning for tomorrow?
Me: Well what hairstyle are there for tomorrow?
Friend: You going 3-7 or Karipap?
Me: 3-7 I guess.
Friend: 3-7 modern or 3-7 classic?
Me: .......


*Another close friend of mine just forgotten his promise. What an idiot! Moral of the story there is no such thing as a promise that's valid forever.

Birthday Boy

To: Mr. Loh Kar Sang (Kelsen),

May you achieve great heights in your career and may our friendship continue to sail till the end of the world. Many wishes and blessings to you. Let love filled your relationship and let it be ever lasting and always fresh.

Yours sincerely,
Gabriel