Soul Mate

After seeing a number of people stating what are their 3 biggest decisions in life. I notice most of them are decisions to be made now and not true for 3 biggest decisions in life. There are people saying "Confess my feeling to the girl that I would like to spend my life with." some say "Choosing which course I am going to take (career path)" I guess what they really miss out is to think really carefully about how they want their life to be. How they picture their life. Most people have in common is choosing their soul mate which is a life-time partner and also most stated to sacrifice current partner *not sure whether they consider about it before they get into it because now they are talking abt sacrificing for God.

I would say everyone has their own right to write whatever answer but most forget about other important things in life such as family & friends, career goal etc. Some use it as opportunity to court girls.

In my honest opinion, all these decision changes and there are no definite 3 biggest decision. At all times we are given choices and we make decisions. Some are decisions that would change your entire life or even a life or death choice. People changes and often it leaves people behind weeping. Changes can be good and it can be disastrous. Seek for wisdom to make good changes and you shall find.

Its never good to sacrifice for your own good, sacrifice are to be made only if its unavoidable and could do better and not the other way round. Some go to the extent to sacrifice their relationship for various reasons, its like putting the blame on their partner which they've chosen and now let go off. Finally some quote:

People change and forget to tell each other. ~Lillian Hellman

Trouble is part of your life, and if you don't share it, you don't give the person who loves you enough chance to love you enough. ~Dinah Shore

Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important. ~Carl Reiner

There's one sad truth in life I've found
While journeying east and west -
The only folks we really wound
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know,
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best.
~Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Commitment is inherent in any genuinely loving relationship. - M Scott Peck


Dear all please remember to cherish the people around you and if you are in love with your partner do not hold back. Life is short, when your loved ones are no longer around you, the absence will make your heart grow fonder. It'll be too late to feel sad or regret over your decisions. And last but not least to inform your partner if you decide to change. After all...

Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow. ~Swedish Proverb